Everyone dreams to be successful and happy. But try to visualize what it really means to be “happy and successful”. You’ll see a conflict of views. Not only there are differences in personal opinions as to what is “happiness and success” but also between that of society’s expectations and individual aspirations.
Social Standards of Judgement
Can smile and relax
peace of mind
happy married life
So once in a while, you’ll have doubts. You’ll be counting what you have with what you want and Social Perception of what more you should acquire. You face chaos and confusion, not knowing which path leads to true “happiness and success”. So let us show you the way.
Be creative. Especially, if you do a job, you’re creating business for them. Sure it helps your career but they own it. Think of an original idea. Dig up your thoughts and diaries from school days. There’s always something special you can create. Your own personal project will go a long way in changing your life, your thoughts and may be even the world if it turns out to be a great concept.
Take interest in good food and exercise
Food and Exercise are cornerstones of staying physically fit and mentally balanced. You’ll find yourself confident and positive even in most adverse and stressful conditions. These habits will prepare you for any challenges and demands life can throw at you.
Feed your mind
Read books. Watch informative content like videos, news on your topics of interest. Learn new skills. Do whatever it takes, but motivate yourself every day.
Effective Time Management
Focus on now. Do what you can, now. Putting of things so they pile up is the biggest downer. However, don’t try to tackle everything and everywhere at once.
Employing Art of War strategy
There’s no harm to pause and review your plan. It may be working well or not. Either ways it can be improved. Why should you do things the old way? Think out of the box. Brainstorm with like-minded people. Never be rigid or stuck in a zone of thought or belief.
Create Personal Bonds
Focus on creating relationships which are not based on monetary benefits. Relationships based on mutual trust, respect and care will be most satisfying and beneficial for you overall. Call people on their birthday. Don’t just text them or send them a card.
Stand your ground
Be stubborn and never give up. Keep doing it till you don’t get it to work. Just break down big tasks into pieces you can do one at a time. Re-invent ways to do things and find solutions.
You’ll get nowhere, unless you ask yourself where you want to be. Aim for what you want, not what you can have. Organize your life actions around achievement of your goals. Have both long term and short term goals.
True happiness and success is not an unattainable higher consciousness or a religious concept. It’s a doable reality. But the doer has to be you.